1. Relax. Take a few minutes lag time when a sense like 'explode'. You can go to another room and remove the 'boom' was in there. If necessary, take a longer time. Once calm, the couple meet again and resolve problems with a cool head.
2. Avoid the word 'always' and 'Never'. "You always" or "You never understand my feelings". Speech is often thrown when we are angry at the couple. In fact, using these words will be increasingly exacerbated the quarrel. Avoid saying or trying to say is more specific and clear.
3. Stop ultimatum. Whatever the case, a fight is not the end of a relationship. So, do not issue ultimatums or declare your relationship has ended. Focus your attention on the core issues. Do not let yourself get carried away.
4. Do not Say "I hate you". Whatever you feel during a fight, never once took out the phrase hate. Especially if you do not actually mean as you say. Phrases such as, "I hate it when you behave like that", would be more pleasing to the ear than "I hate you".
5. Tolerant. A good tactic to soothe and cool the atmosphere is to say soft and smooth on a partner who is 'hot' heart. Be more tolerant, patient and put yourself in his position. If you've never done this on a couple, do not expect he would do the same to you.
6. Do not End Arguments With a quarrel. That is, do not comment on the arguments that have been through too much. No matter who starts interrupt or yell, if you and he have agreed and reconciled. Stop the action or utterance that could spark new fighting.
7. "Sorry." This word does have great magical powers and it works very well in completing the argument. Apologize if you have no good effect during a fight, even if you do not feel guilty in the quarrel.
The best part of an argument is at peace. So, make peace. Express your feelings of love and hug him!
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