There was no denying it prenuptial syndrome can take you on negative thoughts. But all the events in the phase before the wedding will certainly provide new lessons for you and the life to come. Here are some premarital syndrome may experience the bride and groom, along with ways to cope:
Is He The Right Man?
Is he the right guy for me? Whether he will be faithful or not? Am I prepared to spend time with her lifetime? This question often arises in the minds of the prospective bride. Not to mention now a lot of couples who divorce, plus the emergence of a sense of wonder, "Maybe there is a much better man and gorgeous out there."
Doubts are able to keep you awake all night. To overcome this doubt, try to think carefully before you change your mind or even cancel the wedding. Make a list of criteria for an ideal husband your version, then skewer with your partner. If you already meet 50%, meaning your spouse is included in the version of your ideal husband. Remember, nothing is perfect in this world, and even if your partner does not like you'd expect, but who knew he was the best for you.
Tensions in the Family, Couple
The tension will occur in the family and the couple before the wedding day. If you experience this tension, do not think this marriage is not smooth means your marriage is not blessed. Things like this happen before the day of normal H.
All this preparation is not easy to make everyone tense and everyone will be selfish and even blame. If your spouse is bad character appears before the wedding, think that your partner is tense, as strained by you or may be more tense. However, different if your partner's behavior or attitude change until hitting another outrageous, maybe you should reconsider this marriage. Attention and understanding will be needed in this phase.
Goodbye Freedom
Doubts often arise due to self, one is not ready to bear the status of "married." Worried after marriage then freedom will be lost, can not spend a salary for personal interests, not to mention the thought of losing your admirer admirers.
Throw away all those thoughts. Married will indeed change your life and the spouse, the loss of some freedom due to emergence of new responsibilities. And do not be afraid of losing fans, because you already have a partner who will admire you for life, not to mention the beloved children who will also become an admirer of yours.
Look at the positive side of marriage, you're not alone anymore in this life wading. You'll have a friend in solving all the problems, accompany the joy and sorrow. Hopefully these tips can help you overcome pre-marriage syndrome.
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