1. True love does not equal lust
Love and lust often confuse us. Actually, most of the movie themes, songs, novels are not about love but lust. How to tell?
love survives, easily fade ... passion ...
appreciate the love ... lust harness ...
Physical attractiveness is often a signal the beginning of the growth of true love, but it's not so true love.
2. Love does not equal romance
Indeed remarkable romantic feelings in close relationships between men and women. God's design that we experience these feelings in a special relationship with the opposite sex. But the passion and warmth of romance can not be equated with love. Romance is a feeling, while true love still has a meaning far deeper.
3. True love does not equal crazy
Infatuation is a charm and a strong passion in the person of the opposite sex. You'll think of him day and night. Your mind is occupied with that person so that you can not concentrate on anything else. Another word for crazy persaan is puppy love or puppy love. Falling in love or in love first sight they usually talk about feeling crazy ...
4. True love is not the same with sex
Love is a process; sex is an act. Love can be learned; sex is an instinct. Love requires constant attention; sex do not have to like it. Love takes time to evolve and mature; sex does not need time to develop. Love requires the interaction of emotional and spiritual; sex only requires physical interaction. Love makes the relationship more deeply; sex without love makes the relationship so tenuous.
Basically there are three behaviors in relationships with others, often called "Love".
1. "I love you if ..."
Conditional love, 'love if', the love who filed requirements. This kind of love given or received if certain conditions are met, the example I love you if you want to have sex with me once ... 'love if' is always binding. During the milestones are met, the relationship was fine. But when the requirement was not met, the love that was dashed. Many marriage foundered because it was built based on 'love if'. 'Love if' is not true love. if you connect with someone and felt compelled to do something first to get love, it means that relationships are you have is not based on true love.
2. "I love you because ..."
Someone to love others because of something that is owned or done it. For example, I love you because you are beautiful, good, etc.. It sounds pretty good love because almost everyone likes to be loved Because of their personal or what they do. 'Love for' is not true love. You may feel attracted to someone because of his personality, his position, his intelligence, skills, etc.. However, if the basis of your love is deeper than what simply looks possessed or carried out by someone, then love will not last long.
3. Love the point
The third type of love is unconditional love. This type of saying I love you even though you will experience many changes. Nothing whatsoever can you do to quell my love. 'Love the point' is not blind love. Love this type can and really get to know deeply their beloved ones. Love is aware of the possibility of failures, shortcomings and errors that person. There was no way to commercialize this kind of love, but otherwise you can not lose the love reply like this. 'Love the point' and the 'love if' because love does not need to meet certain requirements before it is given. Also different from the 'love for' cause is not determined by whether or not he's attractive or values that are liked by others.
Lust, romance, infatuation, sex, 'love if', and 'love for' both want to get something from someone else, like the opposite of true love gave to others.
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